SeatingSorted vs Excel or Google Sheets

Seating chart software vs a spreadsheet

Checked August 2026

The short answer

Under about 60 guests with no keep-apart rules, use the spreadsheet. Past roughly 80 guests, or the moment you have more than five pairs of people who must or must not sit together, the spreadsheet stops being a tool and becomes a filing system for a problem you are still solving in your head.

Excel or google sheetsSeatingSorted
CostFreeOne payment per event
Setup timeMinutesMinutes
Collecting RSVPsYou retype what arrives by text and emailGuests fill in a link; the list updates itself
Keep-apart rulesHeld in your head, or in a comment nobody readsStated once, enforced every time the plan changes
Moving one guestYou re-check every rule by eyeEvery rule re-checked automatically
Telling you a plan is impossibleNo — it will let you build a broken chartNames the pair causing the conflict
A printable chartYou format it yourselfGenerated
Works offlineYesNo
You own the file foreverYesExport to CSV any time

Use Excel or Google Sheets when

  • Fewer than about 60 guests, where you can hold the whole thing in your head.
  • You already have a spreadsheet you like and only need to tidy it.
  • You want something that works on a plane with no signal.
  • Nobody in the room has a problem with anybody else in the room.

Use SeatingSorted when

  • More than about 80 guests, where the number of pairs to check outgrows what anyone can hold at once.
  • Guests are still replying, so the list moves under you.
  • There are people who genuinely cannot sit together, and being wrong about it is expensive.
  • More than one person is editing, and you have already lost a version.

The part people find out too late

The honest failure mode of a spreadsheet is not that it is hard to use. It is that it will cheerfully let you produce a chart that breaks a rule you set yourself three weeks earlier, and nothing will tell you until somebody sits down.

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